Monday, June 30, 2008
all for one
My coworkers are amazing.
Sunday, June 29, 2008
bad things always happen to me in waves
Today has not been my day.
Thursday, June 26, 2008
beauty queen of only eighteen

RECOGNIZE ANYONE IN THE BACKGROUND?
Probably not because it's blurred out. But that's Ha (Johnny's Vietnamese roommate), Phil, Bibi, and me.
Yesterday our group went to the Temple of Literature and, turns out, it was the same day that the Miss Universe contestants and Miss Universe 2007 were visiting the Temple as well. Ha recognized their bus as they pulled up (he's obsessed with the pageant), and him and Christopher start running after the girls, snapping photos. Christopher doesn't even like to walk!
Anyway, the contest this year is being held in Viet Nam in July, and they've been showing the preliminary rounds on TV (I learned on the busride back that apparently Miss Venezuela recently won the ao dai competition). Ha, Bibi, and I got to take a photo with Miss USA!
Or rather, Ha got to take a photo with Miss USA and Bibi and I just jumped into it last minute, so I'm still laughing in the picture.
The girls were all really pretty (though they were also all wearing layers upon layers of make-up), very poised, and insanely tall in their sky-high heels. Basically, I would like to look like them when I grow up, please.
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
pass the fish oil pills
"In 137 BC, Trieu Da fell seriously ill and then died at the age of 110, after a 60-year reign."
...110 YEARS OLD?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
someone needs an english phrase book
"Hi! I love you!"
I'm fairly certain that this is the only English he knows.
It's weird being here for about two weeks and still feeling like I'm a fish in a bowl. I'm starting to recognize faces and places on the street, but everything from my mannerisms to my hair to my height screams that I don't belong. The attention ranges from overly tiring when it comes from rows of pestering vendors and motorbike and cyclo drivers endlessly hassling you to buy, buy, buy, to hilarious when it comes from locals wanting pictures or Vietnamese men hitting on your guy friends.
At any rate, I'm excited to meet up tonight with a group of kids here from Princeton. It'll be us plus possibly a Yale girl who attended one of our lectures yesterday evening, and we're all going to a bar together. Though I've learned so much from the Vietnamese roommates, I miss meeting new people that I can instantly communicate with without having to explain every cultural reference I make. I don't think I fully realized how unique the Greek system is until I came here.
and then there was light
Last week, we went to the zoo, which was actually semi-depressing because the cages for the animals were so small and all the creatures seemed underfed. But among all that, we also found these fantastic contraptions:
Most fun 25,000 dong I've ever spent.
Later that same day, the whole group of us (all the Duke kids plus our Vietnamese roommates and minus Christopher) went to West Lake, where we rented swan-shaped boats.
It was a gorgeous day, but at night it started absolutely pouring.
I got completely drenched and was not dressed appropriately.
Sunday, June 22, 2008
too much green, too much fun
[Photo credit: National Geographic]The weekend after next, we have three days reserved for independent travel, and so Phil and I booked tickets to Bangkok because... we can. Yushen, Johnny, and Alex are buying their tickets tonight, so that makes the final Bangkok 2008 group: me and four guys. ...I really hope I don't get ditched for a strip club.
Tickets were about $60 minus the taxes and fees, but about $160 with taxes and fees, which, although ridiculous, is about how much it costs to go to, what, Boston? Hostel or budget hotel costs are about $10 to $15 on average for a decent to good one, so it's really affordable living.
And it's fucking Thailand.
Anyway, moving on to what happened this last weekend: the entire group (us plus our Vietnamese roommates) spent the night on a boat in Ha Long Bay, which is a UNESCO World Heritage Site. We sunbathed and stargazed on the roof of the boat (glorious!), went swimming in the salty water (amazing!), visited the grottos and caves (eerily beautiful!), and had an overall fantastic time.
Additionally, last night Thu came back to the room with about 40 long-stemmed red roses for me that she had bought from the Night Market (which is only open Friday to Sunday). She is the sweetest girl ever. No, seriously. She's been getting me little gifts everyday and leaving me notes every morning.
Basically, this entire weekend has left me speechless.
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
limited or no connectivity
Though I originally intended for this to be a photoblog of my time overseas, unfortunately the Internet in my room no longer works, thanks to the rain we've been having. The only time I have steady access to the Internet now is while I'm at work, but, since I don't carry my laptop to work, no photos are on this computer. So, that's that for now.
Keep your fingers crossed.
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
slow motion for me
Let me backtrack for a minute.
About four nights ago, we were wandering around the city, as per our usual favorite nighttime activity, when we stumbled upon a large square packed with kids doing karate, riding bikes, etc. Each activity had its own little corner of the square, and right at the top of the stairs was a group of high school students breakdancing and popping and locking. The best guy was dressed head to toe in black (black baggy jeans, black T-shirt, silver chain, black bandana) and looked like the 14-year-old, Vietnamese version of the guy from Dirty Dancing Havana Nights (and the age description here is not the usual oh-Asians-always-look-younger-than-they-are comment; this kid was actually only 14). You know the cool kids in school that already had a bunch of groupies and that all the other kids wanted to dress like and talk like and be like? We were pretty sure these were Those Kids.
So we made friends.
Fast forward to the next day, and Johnny is back from hanging out with said Cool High School Kids to tell us about the Even Cooler High School Kids that he had met. Apparently, he had befriended the pop and lock champion of the city -- and said champion had agreed to give us lessons.
Which is why last night, Rosie, Johnny, Sam, and I found ourselves surrounded by some the sweetest pop and lock moves I've ever seen and some of the sickest outfits (one guy had on a doo-rag and another had on an outfit that I've definitely worn before -- tight black T-shirt, skinny grey jeans, black ankle boots, red and black checkered bandana), the music blasting from a bike that Rosie and I had chased a guy down to borrow and that was pimped out with speakers and lights. The second-in-command dancer was surprisingly cute.
And what can I say, I'm attracted to talent.
Sunday, June 15, 2008
even though a lot think i'm korean
Friday, June 13, 2008
the bee's knees
It was delicious. And it reminded me of this dried squid dish that my grandma used to make.
Anyway, the discussion somehow led to the topic of slang terms, which led to Brent and me teaching them phrases like, "Holy crap!" (we kept it pretty PG for the first day), which led to us discovering Slang: The Authoritative Topic-by-Topic Dictionary of American Lingoes from All Walks of Life. It was pretty up-to-date, though some were definitely passe while others really need a comeback (especially "gritch," which means to gripe and bitch).
Conspicuously absent from the book, though, was both "That's what she said" and "Your mom." Brent and I figured we should probably teach those phrases to the office on a later day.
robusto arabica
Was this the Vietnamese version of an after-lunch breath mint? I figured maybe it was intended for Philip (I mean, it could be like a "man" thing or something), but then after counting our change, we realized that the waiter had instead actually run out of change (about 1000 dong was missing, to be exact) and had thrown in the cigarette (presumably from his private stash) to make up for it.
And so, while on my balcony with Philip after I had gotten back from work, that became the first Vietnamese cigarette I've ever smoked.
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
where your boyfriend at
Only to see Philip and his Vietnamese roommate standing in front of my door with about six long-stemmed flowers. I could make out some roses.
And, always the lady, the first thing out of my mouth is, "Holy shit! Fuck! Hold on." After which I proceeded to shut the door in their face so I could find a shirt to put on.
Sometimes I amaze even myself.
Turns out, the guys had gotten up at 4 this morning to go to the flower market that's open from 2 to 5 am and bought flowers for all the girls, including two directors. Phil had told me last night that he had planned to do it, but I didn't think he actually would, especially since we had been up late talking with Yushen and Thu.
Anyway, to make up for my lack of grace (and for essentially shooing the guys away so I could put on real clothes and dry my dripping hair), Thu and I wrote a little thank you note on Thu's "special" stationary (she told me she bought it just to write letters to me on -- ISN'T SHE THE SWEETEST THING EVER? I had to ask if it was alright that the first letter we write is to the guys, and she said that was okay). It was so pretty, with flowers and the Eiffel Tower and fashion cut-outs and stuff on it in a collage-like fashion on a pink background (I can tell by her taste in stationary that me and Thu are going to get along just fine) and it even came with a tiny little envelope.
I saw Phil and his roommate downstairs at breakfast later and asked him if they had liked our card because we had loved the flowers. He said that apparently his roommate had liked our card so much that he had asked if he could keep it because he had never gotten something like that before. I felt a little guilty because I had signed the note off, as a joke, "The back of your head is ridiculous, Lucie and Thu," in tribute of our maybe 2-hour-long YouTube session last night (and since Phil had been all, "So can I have yo numba?" at the door earlier), but apparently Phil's roommate thought it was hilarious and told one of our directors, Hiliary, all about how we had an inside joke.
My first day of work has definitely been off to an interesting start.
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
and she likes white boys
- is 23
- is a total sweetie
- has been dating her boyfriend for 1 year
- asked me at dinner if a guy in our group was my boyfriend
- told me that she normally lives in Hanoi with her husband
- actually isn't married
- says she doesn't like the idea of marriage
- loves romantic novels, shopping, walks, journals, etc.
- likes the Spice Girl and 'NSYNC
- uses Asian emoticons in her texts
- holds my hand when we're walking around
Monday, June 9, 2008
em nghi tieng viet kho
Here was our schedule for the day:
- Group breakfast at the guesthouse
- Program overview
- WALKING TOUR
- Lunch at Cafe Diva
- Vietnamese class
- MEET & GREET ROOMMATES
- Welcome dinner at Hoa Sua Restaurant
More pictures to come after, as I have to meet my new roommate in approximately 10 minutes. Quick note for the day, though: VIETNAMESE IS SO HARD. Imagine being told that every single letter you ever learned is now pronounced differently, with 6 different tones. Now imagine my head exploding.
Sunday, June 8, 2008
i'm scared my cosmo magazine is going to scandalize my vietnamese roommate tomorrow
[Quick culture shock moment: turning on blogger and finding it entirely in Vietnamese. Ahh!]
The trip here was quite an ordeal. There were seven of us total, including me, and our flight out of LAX to Seoul got canceled because of “mechanical” problems. Something about our plane's wheel falling off during the last landing? Of course, we didn't actually hear what was going on, but instead two Harvard guys that we had befriended in the airport informed us that the announcer guy was telling the people going to Vietnam to go see him. Thanks, Harvard guys.
We ended up taking a flight five hours later than planned and arrived in Seoul at around 1 am. I slept about 10 of the 14 hours of the flight, so it wasn’t that bad. When we got to Seoul airport, we found out that we had to spend the night in the transit hotel connected to the airport (small scare where the guy thought that they had skipped my name when booking the rooms, but my ticket had actually just fallen under the table), and the rooms were pretty nice. Actually, it's a really sweet airport in general; it takes up an entire island, and since all the transportation had closed by the the time we arrived, we ended up just wandering the airport for a couple of hours (...taking pictures...) and then played Hearts in my room until we decided to try and get at least an hour of sleep before our morning flight. The airline gave us all vouchers for food, so I got a cute little Korean breakfast sandwich and salad set with coffee. Thumbs up, Korea.
[Another note about air traveling: Asian airlines are SO MUCH NICER than American ones. Not only do you each get your own little TV screen and much more food (normally, there's an Asian and a Western option), but they also come around with coffee or tea about every 30 minutes.]
When we finally, finally arrived in Hanoi, my first impression, honestly, was that it was a lot like the Bahamas: hot and humid, with lots of palm trees and colonial-influenced architecture. After about five minutes on the bus though, the traffic and the landscape started to resemble more of Shanghai than Spring Break '08 (...except with a lot less people and not that many skyscrapers). It's also a lot cleaner than I expected.
Anyway, my room is adorable and on the top floor of the guesthouse (which is like a hotel -- there's laundry service, they clean our rooms, etc.), and it comes complete with a tea set and a balcony. We're actually essentially taking up the entire hotel with our group, and there's also apparently a group from Princeton in Hanoi that we're likely going to be meeting up with at some point during the summer (I think the fourth of July was mentioned). I picked the window bed since my roommate isn’t here yet and, not going to lie, the "wet bathroom" thing is going to take some getting used to. I also opened up my suitcase to find a nasty surprise: apparently my aerosol cans of sunblock and my tub of body lotion EXPLODED while on the plane, covering my other bottles with a thin layer of grime. How pleasant.
So far, we've had a group meeting for orientation, a delicious dinner, and then a group of us went on a night-time impromptu walk around the area. Our directors told us about how it's common for same sex people to hold hands, but that a guy and a girl holding hands means "serious commitment" -- but that it's also not uncommon to see lovebirds intertwined in dark little corners of the city/the park. They weren't kidding.It was drizzling outside a bit and incredibly humid, but otherwise it was pretty nice. We actually have a lot of freedom to go around and explore as we choose. The city closes down a lot earlier than I expected though, and we have an 11 pm curfew for the hotel. Most clubs/bars close by midnight at the latest, and a girl on the plane said that a common custom is to go out to dinner and then just stay out for the night, which I guess makes sense too because breakfast every day is from 7-9 am. Which means I have to get up at 7 tomorrow morning to meet the 8 am group breakfast time. Eek.
Good night!Tuesday, June 3, 2008
it's official
way to go
High five, self.